Sex is one
of the few "everyday taboos" in a world where sex is discussed
in every detail. While vast numbers of people engage in it, it's still
seen as naughty, beyond the pale, and even downright sinful by some
members of society.
Anal sex is vastly
popular in mainstream porn, where women are able to "take it
up the ass" without blinking, and it may surprise you to discover
exactly how many men are particularly keen to try it. For women, though,
it can be a worrying thought. The anus is not really designed to accept
large objects, and anal sex can easily be a painful experience.
If, however, you like the idea of trying backdoor shenanigans, there's a few things to remember.
1. Lubrication. Use more than you think you need. As I said before, the bum is not really meant to have anything shoved into it, so lube really helps.
3. Slow, slow, slow. This is a delicate area, so if he thinks he's about to get into an "anal pounding" like in a porn movie, stop him. He has to penetrate slowly, and move slowly once he's in there.
4. Cleanliness. Your rectum can harbour some nasty bacteria, so do not allow him to penetrate your vagina once he has performed anal sex. It's a good idea to wash your hands before you head around the front again.
5. Safe Sex. Don't need to tell you, remember the condoms (and the lube!!)
If you want to know more about anal sex for women, read Tristan Taormino's great book: Guide to Anal Sex for Women.
There's more info on anal sex at Sensual Couples, an adult site for women with plenty of interesting articles.
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